The best way to deal with excessive
thinking is to just listen to it, to listen to the mind. Listening is
much more effective than trying to stop thought or cut it off. When we
listen there is a different mode employed in the heart. Instead of
trying to cut it off, we receive thought without making anything out of
it.
Most of our thoughts are like dreams. Occasionally, perhaps once or
twice a year, we may have a dream that is significant and we know it. We
may not know exactly what it is about, but it is pretty clear that
there’s a message in it. But the other 364 days a year it’s just the
leftovers of the day. There is nothing particularly significant or
important about any of our dream content at all. It’s just the residue,
the echoes of the day’s events and activities, the things that we have
rehashed a couple of times already.
When we look at thought in this way, we aren’t being pulled into it.
We can just look at it. We don’t reject it or suppress it, but we don’t
buy into it either. We don’t make more out of it than is there. That
attitude of listening, of opening to and receiving thought, has a
liberating quality in and of itself.